Maybe he can hook up with this guy:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/3286721.stm
I'd imagine that the victim in question was probably feeling a little weird, a little nervous apprehension about the whole thing. But once he realized he'd gone as far as to share his own penis for dinner and was way too deep into post-Bobbitt territory, it was probably a lot easier to follow through with the rest of the plan.